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We All Need to Be Embarrassed.............by David
Posted by ozzieblackcat at 1/26/2008 3:20 PM and is filed under Relationships,Responsibility,depression,Family,bipolar,Mental Health,Anxiety 
If you treat someone differently (poorly) when you are around other people, as opposed to when it is just the two of you, then I believe you need to be told (or embarrassed). If you're told this and you are embarrassed, then you probably didn't realize you were doing it. If you're told this, you may grin and say "yes, dear". In this case you may not even care.
When I encounter people who do this it almost feels like I'm in high school again. If these people could only know or realize how they are acting, they might be embarrassed and make changes in their behavior. This will only happen if they aren't too far gone into the world they call, "me first".
Another thing people do to one degree or another is justifying our bad behavior. We blame our failures in life on other people rather than ourselves. We are so stuck in this behavior that we can't see we are depriving ourselves and our children of a happy life and I emphasize our children, because that is probably how our parents presented themselves to us. Their example for us was by not taking responsibility for ones 'self.
How do we finally change these things from happening, this passing of bad behavior from one generation to another? I believe the only way is to change our behavior and set a good example. If we did that, we would no longer need to be embarrassed.
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When I encounter people who do this it almost feels like I'm in high school again. If these people could only know or realize how they are acting, they might be embarrassed and make changes in their behavior. This will only happen if they aren't too far gone into the world they call, "me first".
Another thing people do to one degree or another is justifying our bad behavior. We blame our failures in life on other people rather than ourselves. We are so stuck in this behavior that we can't see we are depriving ourselves and our children of a happy life and I emphasize our children, because that is probably how our parents presented themselves to us. Their example for us was by not taking responsibility for ones 'self.
How do we finally change these things from happening, this passing of bad behavior from one generation to another? I believe the only way is to change our behavior and set a good example. If we did that, we would no longer need to be embarrassed.
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